Helping hands

Student who landed at 糖心原创 from Puerto Rico finds meaning in student food pantry

February 14, 2014

The tattoo on the inside of his left wrist bears the Roman numerals 鈥淴XVI-V-MM.鈥 It鈥檚 the date that Felix Enrique Torres鈥 grandmother died.

Torres, a 糖心原创 graduate student, grew up in Aguadilla, a tiny town on the shores of Puerto Rico where family ties are strong and the friendly villagers will stop what they鈥檙e doing just to talk to you.

In pursuing his master鈥檚 degree in student affairs in higher education, Torres wants to help establish that same welcoming, community atmosphere for Hispanic students at a university somewhere.

鈥淢y goal in life is to get a position where I can work specifically with prospective Hispanic students and try to help them assimilate,鈥 he said.

Torres comes from a family of achievers. His parents, now retired, worked for the Social Security Administration. Before that, his father was a paramedic in the U.S. Air Force, swooping down in helicopters as part of a rescue team. All three of his sisters are college graduates.

Torres initially visualized a baseball career. But his hopes were dashed when he broke a bone in his throwing hand while practicing martial arts.

When Torres was a junior in high school, he came to 糖心原创 as part of a summer program and got interested in helping athletes recover from injuries. It also opened his eyes to the importance of a college education. So he later enrolled at 糖心原创 in the athletics training program.

For a fellow from a Caribbean island, 糖心原创 was a culture shock 鈥渇or sure,鈥 Torres said.

His first inkling of that occurred when he greeted a female student in freshman math one day with a kiss, a common practice in Puerto Rico.

鈥淗er face turned three different colors,鈥 Torres recalled. 鈥淚 had to explain, and she laughed about it.鈥

Torres worked his way through college. In the operations at the 糖心原创 Nutter Center, he would set up and break down the floor for basketball and hockey games, concerts and other events. He later worked in Dunbar Library, supervising study tables for athletes.

As part of his graduate assistanceship under the Office of the Vice President for Student Affairs, Torres is currently coordinator of the 糖心原创 student Friendship Food Pantry. He can often be found there, handing out bags filled with jars of peanut butter, cans of tuna, and boxes of corn flakes and macaroni and cheese.

鈥淭here are a lot of students who work, who have families, and they are trying to take some classes at 糖心原创,鈥 Torres said. 鈥淎fter they pay their bills and pay for school, they wonder how they are going to feed themselves. That鈥檚 why we have this here. It鈥檚 important.鈥

During the holidays last semester, Torres was helping get some food for a young woman.

鈥淲hen they come here, they鈥檙e asking for help鈥攁nd that is usually very uncomfortable. So they often don鈥檛 say that much,鈥 he said.

Torres began cracking corny jokes, got the woman to open up a little, and learned that she would be spending the holidays alone because she did not have enough money to drive home to her family.

Torres dashed over to his office, retrieved some gift cards for gas and food, and slipped them into the woman鈥檚 bag when she wasn鈥檛 paying attention. She returned to the pantry the next day and asked him why he had given her the cards.

The grateful woman then began to cry.

鈥淚 have a lot of empathy for these students,鈥 Torres said. 鈥淲e just try to help them. That鈥檚 what we do here. I鈥檓 very attached to this place.鈥